2024's Dating Bull Market Is Here: Confidence, Optimism, And New Social Trends Boost Romance Opportunities.
In 1992, Dominick, a 24-year-old commodities broker, stood on the bustling floor of the New York Mercantile Exchange (NYMEX). Amidst the cacophony of traders' shouts and ringing phones, Dominick made his first big trade on Wall Street, shouting, "Sell! Sell! Sell 100 contracts at $22!" After the closing bell, he and his well-dressed colleagues celebrated at Harry's at Hanover Square, eventually making their way to Delmonico's and then to Limelight. There, he saw a woman who would become his wife four years later.
This tale from 1992 draws a parallel to today’s dating scene. While the stock market and nightlife of the '90s may seem like relics of the past, 2024 is shaping up to resemble that era’s excitement. Welcome to the dating bull market of 2024.
A bull market, when stock prices are rising, signifies a flourishing economy where people feel optimistic and confident about spending. In contrast, a bear market is characterized by falling prices, layoffs, and economic struggle. The pandemic brought a bear market to dating, with lockdowns causing a dating recession. People broke off toxic relationships and approached new ones with caution.
However, in the last three years, New York has entered a new Gilded Age of socialization. Clubsteraunts like Jeans and Little Ways have become popular, transforming from dinner spots to clubs. Influencers vie for memberships at exclusive social clubs like Zero Bond. Activities like chess, backgammon, and pickleball are replacing dating apps as low-pressure ways to meet new people.
People are tired of social isolation and are eager to re-enter the dating scene. The last few years of post-pandemic social anxiety are giving way to a new era of confidence and optimism. This dating bull market is about taking risks and positioning oneself to meet new people.
Using Dominick’s story as an example, he was high on the adrenaline of his first big trade, which gave him confidence. His open-minded and optimistic attitude led him to meet his future wife. Similarly, in the dating bull market, confidence and growth are key. Instead of focusing on how and when you'll meet someone, take risks and be in places where you can socialize.
Start by going to a wine bar with a good book or organizing gatherings with friends. Like smart investors in a bull market, leverage your position to maximize returns. After all, there’s no point in securing a spot at a trendy venue if you don't treat it as an opportunity to make genuine connections.