Erika Etting's expert advice for dating app profiles emphasizes authenticity, strategic photos, and a dash of humor to make love-seekers stand out.
The quest for love intensifies on dating apps, where millions vie for attention. The challenge? Standing out in a sea of hopeful romantics. Enter Erika Etting, a dating coach with a treasure trove of advice gleaned from her successful journey in the online dating world. Thirteen years ago, Etting transformed her knack for crafting engaging dating profiles into a full-fledged career, founding A Little Nudge.
Etting’s formula for a captivating profile is simple yet effective. “Keep your profile information short and sweet,” she advises, underscoring the power of brevity paired with authenticity. According to Etting, a touch of quirkiness can go a long way in revealing your true personality, and making your profile memorable.
Her tips extend to the content of your profile, recommending a mix of hobbies, favorite quotes, TV shows, and interesting facts about your life. The more unique and humorous, the better. “If you have a humorous side, show that part of your personality,” Etting encourages.
Visuals play a critical role too. The initial photo should offer a clear view of your face, setting the tone for transparency and openness. While it's crucial to limit the number of photos to about five or six, including at least one full-body shot can prevent any misaligned expectations. Etting also emphasizes the importance of engaging in activities in your pictures to spark curiosity and conversation.
For men, the advice is straightforward: authenticity is key. Photos with pets should reflect a genuine part of your life, and shirtless pictures are a no-go. Women, on the other hand, are advised to maintain a balance in how much they reveal, focusing on presenting themselves in a manner true to how they would appear on a date.
In essence, Etting’s guidance offers a blueprint for those navigating the digital dating landscape. By crafting profiles that are both genuine and engaging, love-seekers can increase their chances of finding meaningful connections, making every swipe count.